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He liked his isolation; he did not enjoy a surprise. He was large on routine, not large. He never cooked with no recipe. He never drove with no map. I have to say he did not laugh a lot, and there have been times when he found me and Alex and our raucous laughter annoying. I remembered one time telling him in a fit of Ormstown online escorts backpage he was" dour" and I thought that was a totally unattractive trait in a youngish man. I wondered- if I knew then what I knew now would I've been kinder? But the truth was that Bill was a glass- half- empty guy before he got sick, and always trying to help him fill that glass up was exhausting. On a single birthday I bought him Benjamin and Rosamund Stone Zander's lovely book The Art of Possibility, with its guarantee to" provide the reader the capacity to lift off from that world of struggle and sail right into a huge universe of possibility. " And at least a year prior to his diagnosis I'd pushed upon him Dr. Jerome Groopman's The Anatomy of Hope, together with my expectation he would online dating name of individuals in truly dire circumstances who were able to keep their glasses how to review backpage escorts Ormstown QC full in spite of troubles that entirely dwarfed his at the time. The sad irony of that decision. . . But the day that he died both novels sat unread on his bedside table, their bookmarks still protruding forlornly from the very first page or 2.